[Pansy-Mae]

it is worth noting the theory that many of us, for whatever reason, exit the womb hard wired so that when we dress our brains release the same kind of pleasure producing endorphins that most males feel when in physical proximity to attractive women. So becoming female feels as good as being with a woman. This is a fairly well researched theory from what I have learned, and does go a long way, if true, to explaining a lot things.

Getting the discussion back on track, I must admit that I've never heard this theory before, but I like it! It certainly does fit my experiences in many ways and it fits with the concept of the hormonal pre-conditioning of the brain in the womb. Brain says, "Gimme the 'female' I'm programmed for and I'll give you pleasure".

I also like Clara's comment above, 'Technically, my sexual orientation is that of a 'male-lesbian'... ' . I used to use that expression to refer to myself many years ago. I have no interest in men, sexually or otherwise. I prefer women in every way and always have done, and to be accepted by women in my female persona is just heaven to me, as to many if not most cross dressers, in my experience.