03-05-2014, 02:25 AM
One of the cool things I forgot to mention about someone using your letter as their own, even if they decided to say it WASN'T theirs after it was read was that at LEAST they've let SOME of the cat out of the bag!! With even that tiny bit of it out, it'll be SOME relief and the rest might NOT be so hard to let completely out!! At ANY rate, you've at LEAST broken the ice on the subject!
Also, they could use it as a test! Leave it out for the intended reader to see it and then the "writer" could see just how their decision to transition would be taken! If favourable, then they can just come completely out with no problem!! If it DOES stir a bit of shit, then the "writer" can either stand strong and own up to it, or, claim it wasn't them then wait until such a time they feel they CAN own up to it!
Also, they could use it as a test! Leave it out for the intended reader to see it and then the "writer" could see just how their decision to transition would be taken! If favourable, then they can just come completely out with no problem!! If it DOES stir a bit of shit, then the "writer" can either stand strong and own up to it, or, claim it wasn't them then wait until such a time they feel they CAN own up to it!