[TibetanPrincess]

BTW, I'm not talking about TG's. I know its only a percentage and the spectrum is broad. I'm talking about the in betweens and those who claim to be straight.

TG's I really think need to let their spouses know when they come to terms with themselves that they are females inside the wrong body.

Also, if it were me, I'd bring a supportive individual to break it to whomever I think needs to know. I know its private, but i d feel safer that way, letting it sink into their minds and at the same time, hopefully there's no flying fists or objects coming at me.
I wouldn't care what anyone thought, I'd just want the weight off of me, move on and live my life.