[Heather-H]

Dearest Lotus, thank you for your reassurance re daily changes. I am very impatient and wish I could grow a little faster

My DW said one night when we were going to bed "are you growing your boobs" ? I didn't want to start an argument at a late hour and just laughed it off. Secretly I was so delighted as it did seem to indicate there had been an improvement to my gynecomastia.

I do feel bad about keeping it under wraps and will have to have a ' heart to heart' at some point. I am, not by nature, a deceitful type and have always been open and honest in our 45 years of marriage. What I fear is the backlash as she is still very sensitive to my CD'ing. How I approach the subject I have not a clue, I do envy you girls that have supportive and understanding wives or girlfriends.

Any advice will be most welcome, honestly ! Even if it is negatively charged

Thanks again Lotus.

Hugs
Heather XX

I have to agree with Clara. But having that eventual conversation is terrifying, not just for you but for the loved ones too. I see it as a gradual process as opposed to full disclosure though, (that's just my opinion, let them digest things slower.)

Yes, it's also known as spoon feeding (which btw, I dislike the term) however you do it is entirely up to you. And Heather, just so you know, talking about it here is a great step toward.

Please let us know how it goes, and of course!!, you know how much your loved here right?

Dear Lotus, I feel so fortunate and grateful to have you and Clara to support me during these troubled moments. I do like the 'spoon feeding' approach and this may just be the key to securing my desire without upsetting the delicate balance.

Love to you all and thank you again.

Your devoted friend
Heather XX