[❇ Abby ❇]

Perversion- Anything can be perverted, including non sexual things like death, pain, eating, etc. And in this case, its the perversity the female identity. For many women, its hard enough to keep up, we'd like to think we are fulfilling this role just fine in a relationship, whether its our nurturing qualities, giving life, being the female that is in need and supporting her her male companion, staying in our attractive prime as long as possible. Feeling sexy and feminine is just a small portion of what a real woman truly is.

I totally disagree with this statement. Perversion is most often associated with sexual behaviour that is considered particularly abnormal, repulsive or obsessive. Perversion is open to often one sided interpretation and is normally used as a derogatory term. Nothing in my need to feminise is anything to do with sex. I have a mismatch in my gender identity. Genetic male but mentally mostly female.

If many of us women that are fulfilling the wife role, feel desired, yet naturally feminine by the attention of our companions alone; without expressing materialistic feminine habits, then why should any man feel they need to express materialistic feminine habits when they have their attentive companions beside them?

I don't feel the need to "express materialistic feminine habits". I want to change my outward appearance to better match my identity.

These habits of material expression are cross-dressing in lingerie, expressing the female identity on the outside -cosmetics, wardrobe, hair, nails, going the extra mile to alter the voice, posture, mannerisms, things you may not have naturally expressed during or before the marriage, or even in your youth. This is where the female identity becomes perverted.

But in my mind these things should be normality and a matter of choice. It's putting cloths on and make choices on your appearance. It's what you do every morning when you wake up or when you get ready to leave the house.

What most made me sickened by the site was the "destroy him in every possible way" attitude.

Denita