[GoneGirl]

Not to be a downer, but if you are interested, check out the following site...but be prepared for a rude shock.
Www.crossdresserswives.com
OMG
Such hatred and vitriol and willfuly ignorant and deliberate failure to understand...wow.
Wear a thick skin if you look here, and...those with wives...yoy might want to keep them away from this pool of toxicity.
I think I need a shower now.

If you do have a look, let us know what you think.

Maybe a scotch is a better idea...

Well, Sammie, I haven't looked at the site, and don't intend to, but thanks (I think) for pointing it out for those who may be struggling with the idea of coming out to their wives about their GD/CD. It's risky doing so, and I think it wise to consider the potential downsides of a disclosure.

It was only after learning the facts about gender dysphoria and finding this great site that I finally made the move. I'm glad I have a wife who is open minded and supportive. I do think it has a lot to do with the depth of her love for me (and mine for her) that it's working out. If a relationship is tenuous at best, disclosure or discovery could be the straw that breaks the marriage's back.

I did read all of the following blog written by a wife who had a long adjustment to her husband's crossdressing. It helped me with my decision to come out to my wife when my crossgender nature was finally revealed to me:

http://susannejourney.blogspot.com/2009/09/day-world-was-turned-upside-down.html

Clara