[Samantha Rogers]

Flame, the point you are making is not the problem I have with the site. I have no problem if a someone is informed that their spouse harbors a dysphoria that causes them anxiety regarding gender...and decides they cannot or will not stand by their spouse, though I do think it negates the value of the whole "through thick and thin" vows of marriage. What I have a distinct problem with on that site is the vicious hatred and total lack of any attempt to "understand" the difficulties faced by the person they swore they loved. It is one thing to make an attempt at understanding and find you dont have it in you to cope with what your spouse needs. It is quite another to simply turn away in blind rage and fling blame, scorn and derision at the same person you swore to love, especially when the condition for which they are receiving this foul treatment is something with which they were likely born through no fault of there own.
That site is filled with shallow and hateful women intent on playing the victim. This is not a political issue. This is an issue of emotional immaturity and an issue of inability to truly love.
Arrogant, selfish, self indulgent intolerance is simply not defensible. Aside from everything else, it is simply bad manners. Hatred is always the sign of a failed mind.