[MissC]

In all fairness, not all CDs are wonderful husbands. I have talked with a couple of wives who were legitimately upset.

Ultimately, their problems were resolved peacefully.

I believe a wife is well within her right to feel angry and betrayed at a husband who's hidden something so significant about himself for years. Sorry. Some folks should find that forum at least partially instructive.

Such hatred and vitriol and willfuly ignorant and deliberate failure to understand...wow.

I can't really go along with that sentiment. You can't hide something from your partner for decades, and then expect she won't be confused, hurt, and reactionary.