27-03-2014, 06:31 PM
Hi Miranda,
My experience tells me that the male libido is different than the female libido. Before PM, my sex drive was quite strong with sexual tension building throughout the day independent of anything going on around me. That tension demanded release on a frequent basis which I found distracting and not particularly satisfying. Good riddance!
Two weeks after ramping up on PM to 2500 mg/day, my sex drive plummeted. No build up of sexual tension has occurred since. My interest in sex shifted to an interest in intimacy with my spouse triggered by physical contact, touching, a kiss, etc. It was nice and didn't require a sexual climax to be satisfying. It's one of the things I like most about the changes that have happened since starting NBE. I don't know for sure, but I feel like now my sexual response is more like my wife's and many women.
I must say, though, that I personally never was very comfortable playing the man's role in bed, so losing the normal male arousal response and the drive (such as it was) to penetrate my lover was not unwelcome. Still, that desire does happen, and my wife also wants it now and then, so I've worked to keep my male function throughout my NBE experiment. We've been able to have normal sexual intercourse toward the end of a 7-day PM break that I take each month. One thing I discovered, is that having gone a month without orgasmic sex makes for a very powerful and pleasurable love making experience for both of us. Overall, it has improved our sexual relationship significantly.
Clara
My experience tells me that the male libido is different than the female libido. Before PM, my sex drive was quite strong with sexual tension building throughout the day independent of anything going on around me. That tension demanded release on a frequent basis which I found distracting and not particularly satisfying. Good riddance!
Two weeks after ramping up on PM to 2500 mg/day, my sex drive plummeted. No build up of sexual tension has occurred since. My interest in sex shifted to an interest in intimacy with my spouse triggered by physical contact, touching, a kiss, etc. It was nice and didn't require a sexual climax to be satisfying. It's one of the things I like most about the changes that have happened since starting NBE. I don't know for sure, but I feel like now my sexual response is more like my wife's and many women.
I must say, though, that I personally never was very comfortable playing the man's role in bed, so losing the normal male arousal response and the drive (such as it was) to penetrate my lover was not unwelcome. Still, that desire does happen, and my wife also wants it now and then, so I've worked to keep my male function throughout my NBE experiment. We've been able to have normal sexual intercourse toward the end of a 7-day PM break that I take each month. One thing I discovered, is that having gone a month without orgasmic sex makes for a very powerful and pleasurable love making experience for both of us. Overall, it has improved our sexual relationship significantly.
Clara