[Samantha Rogers]

Clara, you make a good point, but it seems pretty clear that Cros is bent on feminization. That being the case, the question is has she thought this through thoroughly? Pushing breast growth and other physical change to the body is going to lead to physical and mental factors which will in time be obvious and impossible to ignore.
Cros, honey, I have to ask you...have you fully thought through where you are going? Where you want to get to?
If you grow full breasts on a body which is not overweight (and you are not), they are going to become obvious to someone at some point. I would think your SO must have already noticed a shaved body besides your growth. What does she say?
My point, as I have said before recently, is that herbal breast growth can not be set off on the side as something different from transitioning. HRT changes the hormonal system of our body, regardless of whether we do so slowly on our own through herbs, or rapidly through synthetic hormones under the care of a physician....it is the same process - lowering T and raising E.
Anyone who follows this path long enough, no matter how slowly they progress, will eventually reach the same place.
It is well to ask youreslf if where you are going is where you want to be long before you actually arrive.
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