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I agree with Missed Miss on the mom situation. Test her a bit. If she does turn out to be as anti-LGBT as you say, I feel like you should just condition her slowly to accept it. Maybe start with being pro-LGBT in front of her and question her anti-LGBT actions and ideas. You could then move to stating and expressing your femininity to her in increasing degrees over time. Hopefully she'd soften up over time. I feel like you'd ideally get the support from a friend of your mom or other family members before confronting your mom. Anyway, that's what I'd suggest, but I haven't had to deal with it myself. Good luck Jenny.