02-03-2014, 04:48 AM
I'm sorry to start a new thread about this. I looked around and couldn't find one that fit.
1st problem. My mom is an old school homo-phobe.
enough said. How do I tell her?
2nd problem. I pay the bills. She lives in MY house. She can't kick me out, but not exactly win-win.
3rd problem. All male profession. Working with guys all day is weird enough.
4th problem. Making it all work long enough to save enough money before I "get fired, let go, etc" How long before mom disowns me and lives in a cave and guilts me to send her $?
I slowly "let myself out" at work, I "let it go" and for the most part my co-workers think I'm joking. I talk about all kinds of things most guys don't.
I had a little run-in while changing into my work pants. One guy asked me if I shaved my legs. I do of course but how to explain it? I said the work pants pulled on my leg hair and pulled most of it out. I killed the conversation after that, it got to be annoying. I doubt he bought my excuses, I shaved that morning before work. I was super-smooth.
I'm at that point in my life where I just don't care. Telling work, I'll probably get fired...eventually.... for some random BS. I will need to save save save. Telling mom will be the hardest. Thoughts?
1st problem. My mom is an old school homo-phobe.
enough said. How do I tell her?
2nd problem. I pay the bills. She lives in MY house. She can't kick me out, but not exactly win-win.
3rd problem. All male profession. Working with guys all day is weird enough.
4th problem. Making it all work long enough to save enough money before I "get fired, let go, etc" How long before mom disowns me and lives in a cave and guilts me to send her $?
I slowly "let myself out" at work, I "let it go" and for the most part my co-workers think I'm joking. I talk about all kinds of things most guys don't.
I had a little run-in while changing into my work pants. One guy asked me if I shaved my legs. I do of course but how to explain it? I said the work pants pulled on my leg hair and pulled most of it out. I killed the conversation after that, it got to be annoying. I doubt he bought my excuses, I shaved that morning before work. I was super-smooth.
I'm at that point in my life where I just don't care. Telling work, I'll probably get fired...eventually.... for some random BS. I will need to save save save. Telling mom will be the hardest. Thoughts?