[Bromsnor]

I agree in theory - bras should not be gendered if there's a need for them. But well, they kind of still are in the mind of most of the society.  " alt="" title="">
I think it comes down to how progressive the partner is, and how progressive the society is. Unfortunately I live in Eastern Europe and these conservative modes of thought are deeply rooted here.
It's mostly the admitting to her that I'm big enough now to need one that I'm afraid of. There's this mutual don't ask, don't tell dynamic that has developed about them, and I don't really want to break it because I don't know what the consequences would be or how it would play out. It's safer to just keep things as they are, I guess.
Especially since she doesn't seem to be a big fan of my boobs and I understand her feelings - a guy shouldn't have as big a bust as his wife" alt="" title="">
So yeah, I don't wanna stir up trouble unless I need to - I'll keep doing NBE and well, this topic will probably arise naturally at some point.

Oh, how I can sympathize with your feelings, I have a very traditionally inclined wife and I wouldn't dare to discuss the matter of boobs, bras and nice, "feminine" underware with her out of fear to cause a irreparable breach with her. I lay awake some nights thinking how it could go on if my boobs take on serious size, on the other hand, I can not stop with what I am doing out of booby greed no doubt. Worries, worries, worries..........

 

[Heaven's Night]

Bras shouls definitely be a unisex clothing. There's a lot of guys who would love to wear one. Anyone with enough titty can benefit quite a lot especially of a sports bra which keeps everything neatly in check. Makes exercise and physical work so much easier.

I guess the titty problem might be an issue in a straight relationship. It would be strange to date a GUY with bigger boobs than what I have... But then again, bodies are unique, boobs are nothing but fatty milk production machines to feed kids. The moment you take any sexualisation off of them, they become just a body part with obvious function to their existence. Its all about the point of view.

[Curvyguy]

I've always felt men should have boobs as much as women not just for sexy times but also useful for feeding babies who the partner that's given birth ethier can't or is too tired to do so. That way the bond is still made but without putting pressure on that partner all the time. Only fair that.

[kanony]

Bromsnor, yeah, that's exactly how it is. 
Knowing your partner well enough to know what the outcome of any such "discussion" would be, but still hoping against hope that maybe, one day... 
And yeah, booby greed is real - I really should stop by now, but deep down I still don't want to.

Heaven's Night - it is a straight relationship and by pure volume I am actually bigger than her. The fact that even you think it'd be weird, even though you are so familiar with males growing boobs here is...a true compliment to my wife for putting up with this, I guess. 
Even more of a reason not to willingly torpedo the relationship for an ultimately kinda selfish reason.
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[Heaven's Night]

The problem would be huge if dudes naturally grew boobs just like that... Omg the boob measuring contests, the way clothing would be marketted, but in that case I'm sure bra sizing would make sense and size ranges would be better. xD lol.

Boob greed certainly is a thing once they start growing. I was at onetime thinking if I should slow down and take it easy at certain size, but then just gave up about it and went all in. Inconvenience is easily won by the niceness of having them.

[Curvyguy]

Yeah but also be a bit more sexual equality too as men be stared at with there boobs as much as women and know then how bad it feels too? 

Absolutely rather have them than a flat chest anyday

[Bromsnor]

Well, your remark is not completely thought through because if all men had boobies, there would be no more staring!!! " alt="" title="">

[Heaven's Night]

I'm not so sure, guys do ton of things all the time to impress other men... If they had boobs, they would show them off as well to impress other guys. 

[Curvyguy]

Absolutely we would be same as comparing penis sizes lol