07-09-2011, 10:59 PM
Wow, thanks for all of your insights! You´ve given me a lot to think about...
I would think Pansy Mae was right if it were any other guy I don´t know that much, but since he´s always been a good friend it just seems too mean that he´d be leading me on for months to get some cheap thrills. But of course I could be wrong.
As for Cheryl´s opinion, it does make a lot of sense, I´ll have to find out. I have always wondered why he´s never had an official girlfriend for more than a few months. And the reasons he gives for breaking up with them have always seemed pretty silly to me. (btw he has sent me pictures, nothing strange there so it must be something else)
Isabelle, your advice is spot on, I had never really looked at it like that. I guess we´re both just at completely different stages in life, he´s always lived alone, concentrated on his job, while I lived through a marriage with two kids. I think there´s no bigger commitment in life than having children, and it changes your whole outlook on relationships in general. It probably comes more natural for me to establish a serious relationship than for him.
Anyway, I do realise that I need to get rid of the negative feelings I get from this situation. I notice it´s making me very insecure, in fact I went to see a flower remedies practitioner today and she detected a lot of stress related to emotional problems. So yeah, I´ll try to take care of that now.
It really is much easier when you´re a teenager, isn´t it? I wish things could be still that simple! Well, here´s something that the younger members of this forum can learn about. Thanks again for taking the time to reply!
I would think Pansy Mae was right if it were any other guy I don´t know that much, but since he´s always been a good friend it just seems too mean that he´d be leading me on for months to get some cheap thrills. But of course I could be wrong.
As for Cheryl´s opinion, it does make a lot of sense, I´ll have to find out. I have always wondered why he´s never had an official girlfriend for more than a few months. And the reasons he gives for breaking up with them have always seemed pretty silly to me. (btw he has sent me pictures, nothing strange there so it must be something else)
Isabelle, your advice is spot on, I had never really looked at it like that. I guess we´re both just at completely different stages in life, he´s always lived alone, concentrated on his job, while I lived through a marriage with two kids. I think there´s no bigger commitment in life than having children, and it changes your whole outlook on relationships in general. It probably comes more natural for me to establish a serious relationship than for him.
Anyway, I do realise that I need to get rid of the negative feelings I get from this situation. I notice it´s making me very insecure, in fact I went to see a flower remedies practitioner today and she detected a lot of stress related to emotional problems. So yeah, I´ll try to take care of that now.
It really is much easier when you´re a teenager, isn´t it? I wish things could be still that simple! Well, here´s something that the younger members of this forum can learn about. Thanks again for taking the time to reply!