01-06-2010, 01:08 PM
Hi everyone, i have a small problem that i feel a little uncomfortable with and im not sure what to do. A few days ago i met one of my Ex girlfriends, we have not spoke for years as she moved away and we kind of drifted apart, now she is also friends with my current best friend and they did stay in touch. She has moved back to this country now and she wanted to meet up with me, she knew i had gone through this change so i think she was just being nosey lol, but i went with my friend and met her for a few drinks. It was very awkward to start with and she seemed very shocked but as we got talking things became easier and we had a good catch up and a good night. We have met up again the other night and talked alot about me and what i had done which i was fine with. The problem is she is very friendly with me and she keeps texting me and ringing me and i am finding it very strange, there is apart of me that still loves her and really wants her in my life as a good friend but i feel embaresed around her and dont think i could treat her like a friend and talk about men and clothes and theres no way i would feel comfortable go shopping with her or even clubing it just feels wrong. I dont know what to do and was looking for some advice, i know i still have feelings for her but i dont find her attractive anymore and its these feelings that are stoping me letting her in my life as a friend, this is so confusing. Any advice would be appreciated.
Hugs Cheryl xxxx
Hugs Cheryl xxxx