Well my journey seems to have stopped for now my DW has made it clear that she is very upset about what is happening and is thinking about leaving. I will have to stop my journey if I have any chance to save my marriage if that is even possible after every thing she knows now.
Keeping fingers crossed.
Ps. I have appreciated all the help I got here and feel like this is the only forum where I can truly be me.
Thank you

Andrea.

I'm sorry to hear your marriage has taken a turn for the worst. Hopefully everything works out with both you and your wife being happy with the outcome.

Gosh, Andrea, that's so sad. I feel for you. I hope your decision to open up to your wife doesn't end in a break up. When I hear of situations like yours, I understand why so many of us were/are afraid to out ourselves to loved ones. It's heartbreaking.

Clara

Andrea,

Sad news. Feel for you. I hope everything works out for you.

Oh, sweetheart, I am sorry. So sorry. How heartbreaking. But, you must do what needs to be done. Hopefully, her attitude may soften in time. If so, we will still be here for you. Best of luck!
Hugs
Sammie

Thank you for all the kind words I can't tell you all how much i appreciate this community. It has been a scary time for me right now i don't know what I will do if my marriage falls apart as I still love my wife and can't see life without her. I am still hoping we can still work through this I know it will not be easy but I am willing to do anything to make it work even if I have to put my journey on the back burner for a while.

Thank you for all the kind words I can't tell you all how much i appreciate this community. It has been a scary time for me right now i don't know what I will do if my marriage falls apart as I still love my wife and can't see life without her. I am still hoping we can still work through this I know it will not be easy but I am willing to do anything to make it work even if I have to put my journey on the back burner for a while.

You have to do what's best for you at this time, my heart goes out to you and I'm hoping everything will work out for the best.

Andrea -

I wish you well in working through this with your wife.

spanky

Andrea,

I'm so sorry to hear of your difficulties. I understand the dilemma you are wrestling with.

I think you are taking a healthy (even if painful) approach, to try to see this as "putting things on the back burner" for a while.

Please let me know if there's anything I might do for you, even if it's just being a friendly ear or a comforting shoulder.

Michelle

Thank you so much Michelle it has been a trying time and would be nice to have someone to talk too.