What's everyone's reason for growing breasts and/or feminizing the appearance of their body?
I know for me it's related to what I think would look sexy on me and that it's also related to a kink I have for being feminine. I think this is a big contrast to many on here who might be more in-line with transgender. So it got me wondering what everyone else is in it for.
Why do you feminize or want breasts?
I am not trans but I've been a crossdresser for as long as I can remember. Growing some boobage is a great way to be able to wear some of my clothes without having to resort to breast forms. I like the idea of being able to dress like a woman but without cheating too much. I like normal clothes, not just slutty or sissy, and I'd like to be able to fill them properly.
The main reason that dags me towards CDing and part feminization is that I love all sort of ohysical soft feelings. I like softer fabrics on my skin, the air through a pair of sheer pantyhose, the change of posture on my heels, the smell of makeup... I really want to see what it is like to feel the bounce and softness of a pair of breasts and to sit on a pillowy bum.
I have an Intersex condition, and about 4 years ago I got fed up with being so 50/50 and decided to go all the way, my brain`s already female so why not!
It is easier and more fulfilling to become, what my wife refuses to, or cannot be, with me. When, in years past, when she was, I found that I was ridiculously possessive of her. Better to possess, in myself, what I cannot possess in others.
I felt ugly flat and hairy. Now my breasts are beautiful
I didn't. I didn't know how much I wanted then, need them, until they started developing because of a medication I was taking for a completely unrelated condition. Once they started, I wanted more. After a while, growing breasts wasn't enough. I realized that I was meant to be someone else.
Now that I've been 10 years down this path, I'm happier than I've ever been, completely comfortable and confident about who I am and my place in the world.
Wow, this is a hard question to answer.
I mostly agree with Shiraz, although I haven't been that much into cross dressing, or for as long. I'd be into it more if my wife hadn't reacted so strongly against it. But I've always loved boobs. There were several times when my wife and I were having sex, and she'd be sitting on top of me. I'd be reaching up and massaging her breasts, and say, "I love your boobies. I wish I had a pair of my own." And she'd always have some negative reaction.
But, like Shiraz, I really wish that I could feel what it's like to have the weight of them bouncing and swaying from my chest. Several years ago, my wife was out of town, and I borrowed one of her sports bras, stuffed it with water balloons, and went out for a short jog to try to imagine how women with big boobs feel jogging. But in the space of about a quarter mile, the strap was chafing a sore on my shoulder. When I was crossdressing, I had a pair of 36DD breast forms, and I tried to glue them to my chest and go out for a jog without a bra. But they were too heavy for the glue, and worked loose within a couple blocks.
I've thought about doing hormones, but I really couldn't see myself going to that expense. I even googled some articles on DIY HRT. I mentioned in another thread coming across an article on Quora about a guy who, in answer to the question, "Do men wear bras", explained that he had to wear one because some medications that he was taking caused him to sprout 38DDD's. And I was jealous.
And then I discovered this site. And, oh wow! It really is possible! But I have to be careful, because, psychologically, I have a tendency to grab hold of an idea like this and go off the deep end. It depends on my mood, but often I think, "If I grow boobs, I'm stuck with them for life. It's not like I can throw out the breast forms, bras, panties, and women's clothes like when I go through a purge, and have everything back the way it was. Do I really want to present myself like that for the rest of my life? What opportunities does that close off to me?"
Oh wow ... Interesting thread.
Although I had known about being "different" since I was around 4, it was always drummed into me that BOYS/MEN do not do that.
I struggled with crossdressing in private for many years.
I found this site quite by mistake, whilst looking for herbal remedies to slow down my hair loss.
Heck, i could grow some small breasts and it would just be something unintentional. However once the PM hit my brain it was like fireworks.
It was not much longer that I needed PM just to stop being depressed.
Then, it was HRT.
Strange thing, originally my wife was set against me trying to grow breasts and dressing up. But once I started to transition and go out more and more as Jannet, then to being full time, she mentioned she wished i could have settled for being a crossdressing guy with small breasts.
(27-11-2019, 09:55 PM)jannet.duff Wrote: [ -> ]Oh wow ... Interesting thread.
Although I had known about being "different" since I was around 4, it was always drummed into me that BOYS/MEN do not do that.
I struggled with crossdressing in private for many years.
I found this site quite by mistake, whilst looking for herbal remedies to slow down my hair loss.
Heck, i could grow some small breasts and it would just be something unintentional. However once the PM hit my brain it was like fireworks.
It was not much longer that I needed PM just to stop being depressed.
Then, it was HRT.
Strange thing, originally my wife was set against me trying to grow breasts and dressing up. But once I started to transition and go out more and more as Jannet, then to being full time, she mentioned she wished i could have settled for being a crossdressing guy with small breasts.
My path is like Demon Lord Etna. I didn't know I really wanted them until they grew a little. I had never thought that it was possible for a man to grow female breasts. When you see male breast development it usually takes the form of floppy mostly fat moons and not breasts. Breasts are attractive and moobs not so much. Once I had some growth and realized that I loved the look, feel and weight of my own breasts then that's all I could think about. A lot of searching and reading and I ended up here.
Well This is a difficult one
As you all are aware with my ummm numerous posts , I was convinced I was tg and yes had breast growth on hrt,
Now I can honestly say I do not know what I am,
I am off hrt,
Sex drive through roof, and normally I would be beyond desperate to grow breasts
But I am not, the idea is just flat
So now I seriously am starting to think am I fetish driven
But as we all know this stuff comes in waves so it could rebound soon
Now However I have no repression, I have admitted to myself and my beautiful wife that I am BISEXUAL, which even to myself took an admission
She took it well, lol
So Julie has always been somewhat confused , but now she flattened and floundering
Even my therapist is pretty flummoxed
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Julie