Okay, so this is slightly embarrassing, and I cannot believe I am going to ask this. So Tanya's post the other day in regards to
Pheremone Changes and Animals got me thinking about something. So while I have noticed my scent has somewhat changed, I have noticed another change in my body in regards to my arousal. So I noticed that when I am aroused I am well how should I put this, moist, sometimes worse. Certain thoughts can trigger a bit of release, as well as the accidental brushing of my nipples will send shivers down my spine and trigger it worse.
The release does not look abnormal, just clear, very slick, and usually dries pretty quickly. The consistency kind of reminds me of the personal lubricant Astroglide. So the problem is the varying volume, sometimes it is enough to soak through my panties, and other times through my slacks. Of course that could lead to quite the embarrassment, so I would find myself having to wait and stay seated in hopes things would clear up. Then it gets me thinking can others tell? Are they able to pickup on my scent? Is it noticeable? Or is it perhaps just noticeable to me? Maybe it's all just in my head and I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill. I just don't know, but it has plagued me and I wonder what other changes am I in store for.
Anyways to help alleviate the uhm, sticky situation, I have started to use panty liners.
I have mixed emotions about this, I find it a bit embarrassing, and part of me finds it a bit titillating.
Perhaps this is in part of being aware what I have on, and feeling it there as I walk bringing it back into focus. Can't help but wonder at times, what exactly have I gotten myself into.
Going to the store to buy them was quite embarrassing as well. I thought I was going to be okay, I mean, not like I haven't bought them before for others, so what's the big deal right? Apparently it was a bit of a big deal, I could feel my face blushing with embarrassment. As I was being rung up at the register, I look at the lady and I see her smile at me and immediately I can feel a few shades redder. She bags my items, and looks back up at me, and I could swear her smile is a bit wider. I quickly averted my eyes, and blurted something I cannot fully recall in regards to my credit card. She handed me the bag and receipt, I said thank you and quickly left in hopes to relieve the flush feeling I had.
So I am curious if anyone else has noticed anything similar in regards to the uhm, wetness. Is it just me? Am I going crazy? Maybe all of this is just in my head, maybe it's just temporary, maybe I am thinking too much about it... Maybe... maybe I just need to stop thinking and over analyzing everything. Unfortunately I don't believe there is an easy off switch for that.
Thanks for taking the time to read this embarrassing story.
Sorry, a quick response is all I really have time to send...
I found similar when on Pharma HRT. At the time - being ... 29? Give or take a year, say?
surprisingly, I didn't miss the erections and the NEED. Getting more "wet" as opposed to being driven to pound away, I could deal with it. Leaking instead of spurting? OK.
I did back off when it went clear, though. I thought I might want kids some day. (Now, I thin the decision's been taken out of my hands.)
As to scent - depends. Male ejaculate smells, female wetness smells. Six of one, half dozen of the other. IF someone is looking, THEN they MIGHT notice.
As a comparison, many women are having bladder leakage these days. If mine sneezes, laughs, lifts something - instant leak. (And she hates underwear. Sorry for the TMI.)
So, even if you ARE noticed, no one is likely to draw attention to it in civil society.
Now, in an erotic sense, it sounds like a feminine response. Someone takes you from behind, rubbing your nipples, kissing your neck, and you end up a little drippy...? Makes sense to me. But you're still dealing with the original plumbing, too. So, the feminine response has a hose attached, and it allows the pressure to drain a bit... Like a water siphon, the liquid goes to a lower point. But it's not just physical, because women aren't turned on that way - it's mental as well. So, she's thinking of how it would be to walk the beach with him, and for him to hold her, and she's getting aroused at that idea.... You sound like you're following that same sort of path.
Proof of the feminine (feminized?) mind.
Now, I don't know how to phrase this, but... I think the feminine response is much more useful, and the feminine approach is more suiting of my temperament. Lots of foreplay, lots of PLAY, and when it's all said and done..? Well, lots of intimacy, hopefully a release.
But the old way was... Well, I had days I couldn't move my arm. :-( (Pre-girlfriend days.) THAT sucked. Things just wouldn't behave, I wasn't in control of mind or body in some ways. I'll take a relaxed attitude over that sort of omnipresent stress & tension.
-Dianna
Bunny, you are not alone. Some time back I had posted a thread concerning the same thing. over time, the pluming tends to want to be another type of plumbing
.
Panty liners are a good choice for saving your undies from getting soaked,as well as your pants. (saves for some embarrassing taunting).
Also too, its just another reinforcement of what womanhood is all about.
I am sure in time, it will be a non-embarrassing issue to go to store and purchase them for yourself.(unless there is a really hot guy , who is the cashier
). that might just make you a bit uneasy.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience, I am sure that you will find that your not alone in this, as others will reply as well.
*hugs*
Oh wow .... I feel I'm missing out on something.
Nothing like that here. I must admit though, even my nipples are not that sensitive. They feel tender when pressed but defiantly not a erotic focal point.
(09-06-2016, 12:53 AM)jannet.duff Wrote: [ -> ]Oh wow .... I feel I'm missing out on something.
Nothing like that here. I must admit though, even my nipples are not that sensitive. They feel tender when pressed but defiantly not a focal point.
no not missing out jannet, just delayed
. I am sure for you it will come all at once like a flood... extreme sensitivities and all the other stuff
(excess moisture). just needs time and patience..
(08-06-2016, 07:36 PM)Dianna1395 Wrote: [ -> ]Sorry, a quick response is all I really have time to send...
I found similar when on Pharma HRT. At the time - being ... 29? Give or take a year, say?
surprisingly, I didn't miss the erections and the NEED. Getting more "wet" as opposed to being driven to pound away, I could deal with it. Leaking instead of spurting? OK.
I did back off when it went clear, though. I thought I might want kids some day. (Now, I thin the decision's been taken out of my hands.)
As to scent - depends. Male ejaculate smells, female wetness smells. Six of one, half dozen of the other. IF someone is looking, THEN they MIGHT notice.
As a comparison, many women are having bladder leakage these days. If mine sneezes, laughs, lifts something - instant leak. (And she hates underwear. Sorry for the TMI.)
So, even if you ARE noticed, no one is likely to draw attention to it in civil society.
Now, in an erotic sense, it sounds like a feminine response. Someone takes you from behind, rubbing your nipples, kissing your neck, and you end up a little drippy...? Makes sense to me. But you're still dealing with the original plumbing, too. So, the feminine response has a hose attached, and it allows the pressure to drain a bit... Like a water siphon, the liquid goes to a lower point. But it's not just physical, because women aren't turned on that way - it's mental as well. So, she's thinking of how it would be to walk the beach with him, and for him to hold her, and she's getting aroused at that idea.... You sound like you're following that same sort of path.
Proof of the feminine (feminized?) mind.
Now, I don't know how to phrase this, but... I think the feminine response is much more useful, and the feminine approach is more suiting of my temperament. Lots of foreplay, lots of PLAY, and when it's all said and done..? Well, lots of intimacy, hopefully a release.
But the old way was... Well, I had days I couldn't move my arm. :-( (Pre-girlfriend days.) THAT sucked. Things just wouldn't behave, I wasn't in control of mind or body in some ways. I'll take a relaxed attitude over that sort of omnipresent stress & tension.
-Dianna
Hmm, interesting. So what you're saying is that I'm not uhm... Aby, Aby something... uhm, oh yeah AbyNormal.
I couldn't resist, but no seriously, I was somewhat perplexed by what was happening to me, and I'm glad I did post about it. Thanks for helping set my mind a bit more at ease.
I am completely grateful that at least one weight has been lifted from my shoulders, that sexual tension that was constantly there has all but subsided. Although perhaps I have traded in one guilty pleasure for another? Nah, the other was far worse, at least now I feel like I have self control. I am in control... I say who, I say when, I say...
(09-06-2016, 08:56 PM)Sofia Lauren Bunny Wrote: [ -> ]I am in control... I say who, I say when, I say...
(giggles to self) sure you have control
, its a nice thing when that happens
a lot of TG have stated on various posts elsewhere, that they feel a relief of not having to perform in the old manner, as well as the urges that came along with it.
I can speak from personal experience, I am glad those urges are gone. I am glad I am not expected to perform like a circus monkey , and of course, always searching for the window of opportunity to be able to engage in that way. AS we all know, women's sex drives, are "mostly" less than males. there are some exceptional cases, mind you. just not as many as those of us who could give two flyng figs to the wind if they had sex every day or not.
For me, it has allowed me to explore other ventures. To be able to persue hobbies I may not have otherwise been thinking about with an addled mind full of testosterone..
but, that's just me and my opOnions..
(opinions are like onions, sometimes, they make you cry).
(08-06-2016, 08:19 PM)Tanya Marie Squirrel Wrote: [ -> ]Bunny, you are not alone. Some time back I had posted a thread concerning the same thing. over time, the pluming tends to want to be another type of plumbing .
Panty liners are a good choice for saving your undies from getting soaked,as well as your pants. (saves for some embarrassing taunting).
Also too, its just another reinforcement of what womanhood is all about.
I am sure in time, it will be a non-embarrassing issue to go to store and purchase them for yourself.(unless there is a really hot guy , who is the cashier ). that might just make you a bit uneasy.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience, I am sure that you will find that your not alone in this, as others will reply as well.
*hugs*
Woo hoo, another confirmation that I am not Aby!! (AbyNormal). Yes, so I am rather relieved about that. I feel a bit more at ease that I won't be potentially putting myself at risk for future embarrassment with potential visual cues as to what's going on. I mean I am sure I could get away once or twice with, oh, just washed my hands and got splashed by the faucet, but eventually that's going to wear thin.
I'm not sure how soon it will not be an embarrassing situation for me, as I am just a bit shy like that. Yeah, apparently I would suck at poker, I wear my emotions in plain sight.
Wait, what? Cute guy... eww... maybe...
**HUGS** Thank you Miss Tanya!
(09-06-2016, 12:53 AM)jannet.duff Wrote: [ -> ]Oh wow .... I feel I'm missing out on something.
Nothing like that here. I must admit though, even my nipples are not that sensitive. They feel tender when pressed but defiantly not a erotic focal point.
It's one of those be careful what you wish for situations.
Mine were pretty sensitive before, and I always wondered if it were possible for them to be more sensitive. As it turns out, they can be. Press them, and it hurts, brush them and *shudders*
Apparently I guess I have on and off buttons!! Ha ha ha... Press those buttons though I am likely to smack the hell out of you.
I am sure in time if you were to so desire they could possibly be an erotic focal point for you.
I've noticed a similar effect, although I do not take pharma; simply PM and Fin. The amount that is released depends on my level of arousal. Have to be careful not to wet the panties too much... any recommendations on suitable micro pads?