They're starting to show in my polo shirts.
I live in polo shirts, and even though I tend to get the knit that is less form fitting (not the smooth ones), what I have going on up top is starting to show.
I enjoy being a guy, and I enjoy the idea of/and having titties. Kind of in a weird space as there's those that want to transition, and those that want to be more female (in whatever way they enjoy) but still as a male. There's kind of a strange pressure to be either or (fully male or female, or in transition to one or the other).
I simply enjoy being different. And I suspect I'm not the only one.
I'm also stuck in that gray area, so you're not alone. I don't know if I would ever fully transition, but from taking PM, it makes me enjoy being less masculine.
Just be true to you, transitioning is no cake walk, it changes everything.
I had a Tumblr called "I want to be a girl" and someone commented along the way "be careful what you wish for." That person didn't necessarily want to be a woman, but loved serving men orally, sexually. Turns out that's really what he/she wanted, and trying to be a woman was an unnecessary step along the way.
(28-05-2016, 12:56 AM)VergeOfDiscovery Wrote: [ -> ]They're starting to show in my polo shirts.
I live in polo shirts, and even though I tend to get the knit that is less form fitting (not the smooth ones), what I have going on up top is starting to show.
I enjoy being a guy, and I enjoy the idea of/and having titties. Kind of in a weird space as there's those that want to transition, and those that want to be more female (in whatever way they enjoy) but still as a male. There's kind of a strange pressure to be either or (fully male or female, or in transition to one or the other).
I simply enjoy being different. And I suspect I'm not the only one.
I agree... I'm certainly showing in quite a few of my mens tops. I've leaned toward looser fits for warm weather wear. At work, I wear a lot of sweaters (vests, cardigans) , or a suit vest (I can wear my 36A pushup under a vest
).
I'll also wear a slim fit suit jacket over a t-shirt, with jeans or slacks.
All of the above smooth things out a lot, and hide bra hardware
I would simply prefer it if gender wasn't an issue, but at this point, if people feel the need to assign me one, I'd prefer it to be male. I very much enjoy being mistaken for female (three times since Feb
), partly because it's gotten fun to see their faces when they hear my voice. I'm comfortable with how I look, now, but if my boobs were twice as big as they are now, I think I can be comfortable with that too.
I also discovered swim shirts!
-j
That's awesome! Feel the same about the twice the size.
It really comes down to what you enjoy...life is so precious. We live while we can, and ideally, we live more fully!
I just realized you were one sporting a rack I admired earlier!
I have short hair, and no hopes of sporting longer, femalish hair (short of a wig) anytime soon. So my options are limited in going full throttle (not that I want to). But progressing to even bigger boobage, now that's a bit of a challenge - in how to deal with, rather than how to accomplish.
I guess that's a good problem to have...but I'm at a strange point where I'll have some explaining to do! LOL
(28-05-2016, 12:56 AM)VergeOfDiscovery Wrote: [ -> ]They're starting to show in my polo shirts.
I live in polo shirts, and even though I tend to get the knit that is less form fitting (not the smooth ones), what I have going on up top is starting to show.
I enjoy being a guy, and I enjoy the idea of/and having titties. Kind of in a weird space as there's those that want to transition, and those that want to be more female (in whatever way they enjoy) but still as a male. There's kind of a strange pressure to be either or (fully male or female, or in transition to one or the other).
I simply enjoy being different. And I suspect I'm not the only one.
Nope by far not the only one....to others yes we seem "different" but I don't know about you, but to me its finally normalizing who I am and how I am/was supposed to look all along....make any sense???
It does.
I show through in my polos and many tshirts. Its one of those, well this is what I wanted, what did I expect would happen type of things. No going back now.
For me, I started to wear more things not "male". Like leggings, tights, panties instead of boxers, I have been wearing a bra regularly now for months. So I say let it all happen naturally, if you feel you want to try another piece of clothing, go for it. Listen to what your body says.
Personally, I've incorporated more colorful, more feminine leaning color combinations, yet still men's clothing into my wardrobe.
I've gotten some comments on the style from women, like "I love those colors on you."
I take it as more than just a compliment, but an expression of something like: I wish more men were as daring to spice things up a bit.