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Well currently I'm on a break, dealing with health issues,

So it's been over a week now, but if you haven't noticed already, it seems that I've lost some of the mental benefits of PM. I hear ya!, you didn't have any to began with,ha ha

Maybe we need a poll to shut up already lotus!, probably be off the scale, Rolleyes

But seriously, whether myself or others have caused the departures of some it would a shame that we lose their contributions. But one at time right, seriously though let's keep it all together, no camps!. That's the reason for the post/poll, like Macklemore raps:


Strip away the fear
Underneath it's all the same love





Btw-I'm not a bleeding heart usually/don't give up hope!
I don't see that Doodlebug's prime concerns have been addressed or that the situation has changed much at all, so I voted "not sure".

I respect, and to a certain extent agree, with D's opinions... The difference for me is that I don't feel 'uncomfortable' here... But there's an important distinction - I didn't say I was comfortable. My experience with bulletin board formats like this (going back to newsgroups) is that anything can, and frequently does, happen; and it usually results in someone getting PO'd. It only takes a few virtual shouting matches, or a general lull in intelligent discourse, to realize that there are better ways to spend your time.
I keep coming back because there are still persons here I find interesting, with interesting opinions and information, and new people with their own interesting thoughts and opinions.
(Like this: http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=17310)

I also appreciate the feedback I receive; some of it's good for my ego, but the more valuable are honest questions and opinions about what I'm up too and my progress... These things make me think, and be honest with myself.
I don't see that ever stopping here; but if it does, I'll join D in self-exile.

-j

(12-12-2013, 02:55 AM)doodlebug2055 Wrote: [ -> ]...I long for the days when we discussed serious topics. When people put thought into a single, thorough response and took the time to check spelling and punctuation.
I miss being able to come here and share something that’s on my heart and get helpful feedback or provide encouragement...
...I miss the days when I actually wanted to read all the threads because there was something good in all of them. Frankly it’s a rarity now to find anything worthwhile at all.
...Now I can’t open anything without pornographic profile pics jumping off the screen at me (and whoever happens to glance over my shoulder). I wouldn’t want my male buddies to see that let alone my wife or kids and CERTAINLY wouldn’t want anyone to read what’s being written if I had any hope of them understanding GID.
I won't be casting a vote. I found doodlebug to be a valuable contributor and a supportive friendly person. But it isn't my place to try to convince doodlebug to be somewhere they don't want to be. I feel confident that doodlebug will check in and will return to an active status if and when the forums look like a place doodlebug wants to be.
I get it,

There will always be the people that leave a trail of destruction in their wake, but why let a few spoil it for others?

The cringe worthy have nothing to contribute except criticism and or stupidity, a filter would be nice.

Then you have people seeking real help and want to genuinely contribute (ClaraKay is a good example) but do we not offer the help because of the few random posts of the clueless?

If you've put in the effort, why give up the time?, This could be said for past members as well.

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Tell me this isn't change,

All my pics have been deleted, yup, gone is in everything!, deleted the profile, username profile, flogging of myself, public apologies (numerous times).

Doodle and I have only shared once or twice (I posted on his thread about my long hair but never got a response) so I pretty much got the message, that's ok, I got it.

So why I'm I doing this?, I just don't see the value in loosing ones opinion, even if there's no communication between us.

Perhaps it's what I've experienced in life, a couple of near death experience's, being robbed, beaten, and a few other other things I'd rather not mention, but those scars have shaped me into who I am, better or worse, better I hope!

So, I don't see anybody else making the effort for the changes to be more comfortable.

Why?

L

I voted for Doodle to come back. I do respect his decision to leave the forum, but I really do miss the thoughtful perspectives he contributed on every post.

In my opinion, as a newbie, this is a really good forum. Much better than the alternatives. There's lots of good information here from lots of thoughtful and friendly people. I would really hate to see this support group lose its relevance for all transgenders, old and new. That doesn't mean that every post has to hit the bullseye every time. Friendly camaraderie is important, too, and as long as we keep the discussions civil and maintain reasonable decorum, things will be fine by me.

I laud Lotus's efforts to make amends for any offense that may have unintentionally occurred.

Oh, and Lotus, I like the wig! Wink

CK
(18-12-2013, 06:09 AM)Lotus Wrote: [ -> ]Tell me this isn't change,

All my pics have been deleted, yup, gone is in everything!, deleted the profile, username profile, flogging of myself, public apologies (numerous times).

Doodle and I have only shared once or twice (I posted on his thread about my long hair but never got a response) so I pretty much got the message, that's ok, I got it.

So why I'm I doing this?, I just don't see the value in loosing ones opinion, even if there's no communication between us.

Perhaps it's what I've experienced in life, a couple of near death experience's, being robbed, beaten, and a few other other things I'd rather not mention, but those scars have shaped me into who I am, better or worse, better I hope!

So, I don't see anybody else making the effort for the changes to be more comfortable.

Why?

L

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Yes it's change but... Oh fer cryin' out loud... Look, without speaking for Doodlebug (we've never had much of an exchange either), the current atmosphere here is not that people are sharing progress pics, or even other pics when appropriate... Yours are probably more inspiration than you realize, and I certainly don't want, or expect you (or anyone else) to immediately self censor because it may or may not offend. I have no plan or real interest in going through my pics and post to find something that could be considered offensive.
And I gotta say, if I wake up one day with I really nice set of DD's, you better believe my profile pic would be showing those off!

What I like to see/read is post that are more substantive. In the past year I've seen a LOT of "tweet-like" posts. This isn't Twitter, and much of the time I can't for the life of me figure out what the poster is trying to convey in under 50 words - is it a joke? An insult? A rant? Do they want a response and what kind of response?
Short posts are great, if you're simply agreeing, passing along a sentiment, or sharing a simple fact/item/link - heck I'm guilty of it myself sometimes. But if you really want to share and converse, give me more context and substance. It generally sparks a better exchange.

Please, communicate how and what YOU please, don't expect not to be called on it, but that shouldn't stop anyone from trying. If three or more people are having a lively, baudy, friendly conversation at no one's expense, that also happens to be offensive to others oh well... They're having fun! I see stuff on TV all the time that I find offensive - I turn the channel or leave the room.
At some point I might expect them to take it elsewhere, or somebody may ask them to do so, but again, oh well.

-j
Thank you jami,

Clearly, you make sense!!

Let me make one final point and I WiLL shut up about it.

Don't stick our heads in the sand like the Ostrich, or wait to poke our head out like the turtles when the coast is clear!

DONE!
Lotus,

I sympathize. It must be frustrating to take all the steps you have taken, and have no one apparently take much notice. I tend to feel the same way when my own posts are apparently ignored. I usually react to posts rather slowly, and then carefully compose answers off line to paste in, by which time things have moved on past me. I have no complaints about your posts except that they're so quick fire that I've never been able to keep up with them. I too have had my problems in making and posting pictures, and while I regret the loss of yours, I didn't think that they always did the best job in presenting what appears to be your truly phenomenal breast development to its best advantage, with enough surrounding body that one can appreciate them properly. I agree with you that other changes are on topic for the forum if they are relevant background to breast growth. I think that you have influenced me to make more effort to produce my responses directly on line, and hopefully that will make them a little less serious minded and more spontaneous. I have some reason to believe that there are others who have noticed, even if they haven't said so.

BTW, I too like that wig (I'm not quite ready to go that way yet), and I second jamixoxo's post.

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