27-01-2018, 05:51 PM
Yes, it's a hell of a decision to make, would you be happy with a halfway house solution? I suppose it all depends on your goals and personal circumstances. Could the halfway house solution be made full transition at a later date if you wanted it? Would you double the risk with a second operation? You may not want full penetrative sex and be scared of rape, but women don't have a choice, and have to live with the risk, I suspect its low enough to not be a major deciding factor. The implications for rape are very serious and rights and perspectives are changing in women's favour. Ultimately only you can, and should make the decision, it's your life and body. Having said that it's good to ask and others may make suggestions you haven't even considered that may help you. It's too late, or maybe not to say after why didn't I consider that? You'll probably never be 100%sure,but may be 99%,or maybe 80 or 70%, but is that enough? 80% may be acceptable for one option but only 90% for another. I'd say be as sure as you can be, and be happy to move forward for yourself regardless of others whatever you decide. Xx