[julieTG]

What a lovely post Annie

Rock on GIRL
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Julie

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[Concerned]

Hi Lady's,
    In order to give you the full impact of my story..I must give you a summary of how I ended up where I am now CDing weekly and pursuing Body changes thru NBE. It really started innocently as a wee pre-pubescent lad...all of 10-11 I would venture a guess...spending hours putting on girdles and bra's wigs..socks  Boas,.hats..jewelry ect. and exploring my "Tingly" feelings in such a divinely girlish way..In my mothers dressing closet. Now reflecting on it....fast forward a lifetime...and feeling's started to resurface and kindle new sexual and exploratory feeling 's in my adult life.I have not fought the urges..and slowly it took route in my mind,Psyche , and everyday life....And initially I had an attraction to CD/Transgenders..and then a realization I loaned to be a CD/Transgender So know I am closeted to most people accept my wife..and this board..for the time being I am good with that..lol
          Now, to the main event..When and How did my wife find out about my CD ways??..and more importantly..how did she react???
   In the beginning, it was my secret..my "thing" to handle..hide and keep secret..I ordered clothes and had them delivered to the store..
where I would pick them up..in man mode..and make my way to the exit pronto..sneak the package into the house and hide the clothing 
in places my wife would not be prone to go..lol..I was really covert about it.. it was nerve racking..and I was destined to fall from the heights eventually..which after about 12 months of successfully keeping this from her...I forgot the lipstick out on my bed top...OH BOY!...or more to the point..OH GIRL! I came home from work in the evenings..9ish, my wife was watching TV in the bedroom..she called me into the bedroom..and held out the bright red Revlon lipstick pencil tube and asked what was doing in the bed??? And Jokingly..kind of ...commented..Did your new girl friend leave this behind?
                  At this point, I had a choice to make. Not face the reality of what had happened..and try to lie/explain myself out of it...which my wife would never go for...or prove to her what was going on..That day I had panty's and thigh highs on..so I said to her...I'll just show you something that explains this all..and I undid my belt and lowered my trousers..and revealed some of Annie's goodies..lol
She didn't say anything for about the longest half a minute of my life..and then exclaimed..Wow..well..hmmmm..I wasn't expecting this..wow...How long have you been at this? And I answered her succinctly with a gentle voice as accurately and calmly as possible and after quelling her myriad of questions..most of which basically reaffirmed our marriage and my reasons for my CD and the fact I wasn't looking to fully transition..which currently I am not...but actually enjoyed being a p/t dresser...she responded very supportive and understanding of my actions..and was very relieved the lipstick was mine! Yaa!..I felt very relieved and now she has no problem with my dressing..accept for one thing...she hasn't reached a point where she can handle or embrace the full on gurl in me..i.e., in full make up...that actually freaked her out..she cried,,and could not  look at me.
                Well...I said I get it..and she said it would take time, but she said she would eventually be able to deal with it...so it will be baby steps to get there to total acceptance of my feminine way's...but I don't mind,,she is awesome and accepts it..even helps me pick out outfits..and I dress as a woman when we are intimate...it's actually given a major boost to our love life..go figure! That's my story..and I;m sticking with it!!!! I am happy with the situation..I feel it could have been a much worse outcome..So I continue exploring my feelings..and I have my wife's support...I don't have to hide this from my best friend..thank goodness!!!Thanks for reading my story!!
              Regards, -Annie.

Thanks Katie! xo

[Concerned]

What a lovely post Annie

Rock on GIRL
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Julie

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Thanks Julie! xo

[PleasantlyFascinated]

In my case, she never has.  She stumbled across my high-heels once, challenged me about it, to which I basically said, "So, why is that a problem?"  She said it's weird and it freaks her out, because it means I'm a weird homo.  I could tell there really was no point in pursuing it further, for acceptance.  Since somewhere around that time, we have no longer have a sex life, no matter how vanilla I would make it.  Menopause in women can be a real beast.
After 10 years, it doesn't really matter anymore.  I feel more femme when naked than when dressed, so CD really isn't a big deal for me.  Though, If I ever had a partner who was into it, I'd be all over it in a flash.

[Shirazmn]

Since the year I moved to London from a small and small minded town in Italy I decided to ve open with my SO about my crossdressing.
I had three GFs in London, one of which became my current wife. When I was flat sharing I used to dress up at home almost every day, so my heels and dresses were everywhere. I just didn't want to hide any more and I would always carry a couple of pictures of me dressed up in my phone. Before they'd come to my place I would show them the pics to test their reaction. If they had a problem with it, I would just stop seeing them.
At least that was the plan, because none of them ever had a problem. Actually, they were intrigued and they asked me to show them my clothes the first time they visited.

Essentially, my wife saw me dressed before becoming my long term partner. She only saw me fully dressed in person when we had a party at home a few weeks after, and she was ok with it, but I had to take my make up off before doing anything intimate.

I am posting here an example of the pics I showed them.

[The First Aria]

@Shrazma:  Very nice legs!   You are a very lucky person to be surrounded by people who obvious care about you, not what you wear.

[Shirazmn]

@Aria thank you
My legs are probably the only part of my body that I actually like when en femme. 5" heels seem to help somehow... (6" the pink ones...)

I am super lucky to have found the girls I found. At the same time, I am sure that being open with them and firm in my decision of not hiding has done a lot of good in my relationships.

[julieTG]

No doubt about it
Very hot legs

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Julie