28-08-2016, 09:13 AM
Maybe i've got it wrong, but i don't think there's much that will reduce the amount of body hair. You pretty much need electrolysis for that.
One of my incentives for continuing my regime is that it is slowly growing back head hair where i had lost it.
You say that because of your height and age you will never pass. But you may be surprised. I have never tried to pass, and certainly never thought i did or would. Basically i just go about my own version of normal, which does include some things typically considered feminine, but i don't do anything excessively girly. My voice is just my normal voice. I am obviously lacking hair where it should be. But despite all of this, i appear to pass for quite a few people, who just treat me like one of the girls. While i'm sure that many just think i'm transgender (which i don't consider myself to be) and are just playing along, there are definitely a few for whom i seem to pass - amazingly. And at a distance, like passing people on the sidewalk, i seem to pass quite a lot. But really, it doesn't matter whether i do or not. The important thing is that people like me, treat me well, and i've not experienced any gender-related discrimination by anyone in my community.
Your mileage may vary, but i've found that i am pretty much accepted for what i am and have stopped worrying about it.
One of my incentives for continuing my regime is that it is slowly growing back head hair where i had lost it.
You say that because of your height and age you will never pass. But you may be surprised. I have never tried to pass, and certainly never thought i did or would. Basically i just go about my own version of normal, which does include some things typically considered feminine, but i don't do anything excessively girly. My voice is just my normal voice. I am obviously lacking hair where it should be. But despite all of this, i appear to pass for quite a few people, who just treat me like one of the girls. While i'm sure that many just think i'm transgender (which i don't consider myself to be) and are just playing along, there are definitely a few for whom i seem to pass - amazingly. And at a distance, like passing people on the sidewalk, i seem to pass quite a lot. But really, it doesn't matter whether i do or not. The important thing is that people like me, treat me well, and i've not experienced any gender-related discrimination by anyone in my community.
Your mileage may vary, but i've found that i am pretty much accepted for what i am and have stopped worrying about it.