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My collection of feminine clothes is growing and growing. It's getting harder and harder to find space for them...LOL. I joked to my DW that I'm going to have to purge all my guy clothes to make more room. That got an rolling of the eyes.
I know some of you have to hide your girl clothes from the family. That's got to present an even bigger problem. Where do you put your stuff?
I know there are plenty of CDers here, so maybe someone has a good system?
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I desperately need more clothes storage, it was bad enough with just my guy clothes before, im lucky in that my family know i wear girls clothes, for those that done maybe a lockable trunk or suitcase?
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LOL, well I have all sorts of clothes just lying around everywhere. My mom, brother, and best friend all know, so it doesn't really matter since no one else is around.
I never "hung up" or "folded" clothes anyways. My dryer doubles as an iron.
I'm lazy lol
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(26-06-2014, 10:16 PM)SarahSchilling Wrote: LOL, well I have all sorts of clothes just lying around everywhere. My mom, brother, and best friend all know, so it doesn't really matter since no one else is around.
I never "hung up" or "folded" clothes anyways. My dryer doubles as an iron.
I'm lazy lol
Sarah, you crack me up. You and I would make quite a pair. When I met my wife, she was that way, too. Now she likes to iron... What a woman!
Hugs,
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No help from me. Buying female clothes has become a hobby for me and all of my drawers and closets have female clothes in them. I really can not hide anything if someone goes looking in my bedroom, and they want to look around. I do occastionly take all of the female stuff out of the bathroom if people are coming over. The one thing that we do not need is a shopping section I do not think that my wallet could take it.
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(28-06-2014, 12:04 AM)whybreasts Wrote: No help from me. Buying female clothes has become a hobby for me and all of my drawers and closets have female clothes in them. I really can not hide anything if someone goes looking in my bedroom, and they want to look around. I do occastionly take all of the female stuff out of the bathroom if people are coming over. The one thing that we do not need is a shopping section I do not think that my wallet could take it.
Ha ha! Yeah. My wife made the comment today, "Now you understand the need to have so many pairs of shoes, right?"
She's right!
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I have gotten so bad about shopping that I will buy multible colors of a item if it is a good deal, and I will go back and buy the things I love in other colors. Please help me. NBE does not decrease my desire to dress.
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(28-06-2014, 12:46 AM)whybreasts Wrote: I have gotten so bad about shopping that I will buy multible colors of a item if it is a good deal, and I will go back and buy the things I love in other colors. Please help me. NBE does not decrease my desire to dress.
Hi Whybreast,
May I ask, is your dressing done for sexual arousal?
NBE has increased my desire to dress, too, but only as a means of expressing my strong cross gender (i.e., female) identity. The sexual aspects of it died about 1 month into my NBE program.
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Hi Clara
I usually get home from work and get dressed and just relax. I rarely get turned on by dressing anymore. Today I had two full control slips show up in the mail and I was excited and ran into my house to try one on, but the excitement was not sexual. I bought two because they were a great deal and I needed both colors. At the moment I really do not try to get off at night because it does not work. My thing only seems to work any more in the morning when my T is higher. I really do not understand the sexual side of things. If I was not a big male I think that I would want to transition. If everything was purely sexual why did I want to dress and be a girl when I was five years old? I think being on NBE and having my girl clothes as reduced my stress and anxiety about the whole thing.
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(28-06-2014, 09:17 AM)whybreasts Wrote: Hi Clara
I usually get home from work and get dressed and just relax. I rarely get turned on by dressing anymore. Today I had two full control slips show up in the mail and I was excited and ran into my house to try one on, but the excitement was not sexual. I bought two because they were a great deal and I needed both colors. At the moment I really do not try to get off at night because it does not work. My thing only seems to work any more in the morning when my T is higher. I really do not understand the sexual side of things. If I was not a big male I think that I would want to transition. If everything was purely sexual why did I want to dress and be a girl when I was five years old? I think being on NBE and having my girl clothes as reduced my stress and anxiety about the whole thing.
Based on your self-description, I'd say you're transgender. Spontaneous sexual arousal is a consequence of testosterone. It makes sense it would be stronger in the AM. Having been plagued by it all my adult life to the when I started herbal HRT, I don't miss it at all now. Sex and intimacy are one for me now. It takes a loving comment or a gentle touch to excite the fire. The 'blue pill' overcomes any loss of virility when my DW needs the big O.
Clara