(21-12-2011, 08:13 PM)julieTG Wrote: Get worse as you get older ?
After speaking with others , many of us had not considered they were trans in any way really , perhaps mild cd,
Then errr bang, suddenly need breasts and the want was hard , big style ?
Any views ????
Julie
I recognise quite a bit of this:
http://www.avitale.com/UnlivedLives.htm
and this
http://www.avitale.com/MidLifeAwakening.htm
... but most particularly this one...
http://www.avitale.com/developmentalreview.htm
" As a time when most people realize that about half of life has been lived ... this period can be especially anxiety provoking for the gender-dysphoric individual. Decades of trying to overcome an increasing gender expression deprivation anxiety begin to weigh heavily on the individual. Family and career are now as deeply rooted as they will ever be. The idea of starting over as a member of a different sex has become seemingly impossible. ...
These individuals often show up in therapy offices with symptoms mimicking Depression or Generalized Anxiety Disorder. They complain of panic attacks, irritability, sleeping disorder, inability to concentrate..."
The last paragraph describes (the old) me quite well. Thankfully, PM has sorted me out.
What I would say is that Dr Vitale's writings, though good explanatory essays, betray her conviction, as part of the medical/pharma orthodoxy, that the answer to just about everything with gender dysphoria winds up in transition.
This is probably because most medics aren't aware / don't care about the safe herbal remedies like PM that are available, and once they start injecting people with the sort of estrogen that causes blood clotting so they recommend orchiectomies, it's pretty much a one-way street after that.
Personally, I think I'm dealing with my situation very nicely without all that snipping and chopping.
TTFN
B.