(03-06-2019, 09:31 PM)dawn Wrote: If you're going to say Gynecomastia, you have to give a reason why you have gynecmoastia as well. Probably easier to just tell the wife you want to grow boobs?
I don't want to hijack somebody else's thread, but I want to talk more about this, because it scares me to death.
I recognize the wisdom in Dawn's advice ("Probably easier to just tell the wife you want to grow boobs?"), but I can NOT imagine that conversation going well in my house.
We have had several conversations over the last 3 -6 months on the subject of my crossdressing desires. Desires, mind you - she has never seen me cross dressed, and has no idea if or how far I have actually practiced it. But the word was, "I will not support you in it, and if you push it or persist in it, it will be the death of our marriage." And in another conversation, she said she did not want an effeminate husband, much less one that was growing more so right before her eyes.
And this was before I found this site, or had ANY idea that there was such a thing as NBE, and that it really is possible for men to grow reasonably-sized feminine-looking breasts. And when I found this site, i became almost an instant addict.
So I'm just getting started on this journey - about a week in. And haven't even really committed to it. But man, do I want to. When we were having our "discussions", and she said she read this or that on the internet, I went googling trying to find what she was reading. But one of the rabbit trails I went down was a series of articles on Quora, in response to the question "Do men wear bras?". The answer that caught my attention (
https://www.quora.com/Do-men-wear-bras/answer/Flo-Clak) was from a middle-aged guy who said he wore bras for support because the prescription meds he was on caused his breasts go grow to a 38DDD. And my response was "I'm jealous. Where can I get those med?!". But at the same time, I'm scared to death of how my wife will react. Right now, all I'm doing is listening to Binaural Beats tracks (courtesy of BreastQuest's information in his thread in Personal Programs. I'm skeptical that it can really do anything, but I figure it can't hurt to try and she can't yell at me for listening to music, right? I'm listening several hours a day, and I would love to put it on at night, but when I tried, she said she could hear music coming from my hearing aids, so I dropped it rather than raise an issue. But my intention is to keep it up for 3 months and see if there are any results, or to stop if I start getting some obvious results. I also started yesterday massaging my breasts, and this morning I got some mint tea (mixture of spearmint and peppermint - couldn't find any straight spearmint) and some green tea.
But I ask myself, what's you endgame? Where are you taking this?a Do you want this so bad that you're willing to jeopardize your marriage? And can you see any other way out? To be clear, this is not my identity. I don't have gender dysphoria, and I don't feel like I'm a woman trapped in a man's body. As someone said in one of these threads, "I'm just a guy who likes [the idea of] having boobs."
Love to hear from anybody with any insight/advice.
Thanks for your patience.