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Hi Alexis,
Yes the SAGE test is quite eye opening.
Mine told me I needed both sexes in my life to be complete and that was what I needed to know. I had been wrestling with who or what I was for YEARS. and have 'two spirit' as they say was a wonderful relief.
But armed with this info, seeing a therapist is a good idea.
He/she will be able to evaluate your inner you and offer guidance. Its a long and sometimes very hard road to transition. But if this is your path It will make all the difference in the world.
Look up Aria, Katie, and Jannet.
Their stories are very helpful. They all learned to accept their inner self.
If your not going all the way, that's cool too. there are a lot of us in that boat, and there is always room for more.
Its fun and nerve wracking at the same time.
Keep talking, its the best way to figure out this stuff.
Bobbi
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12-12-2020, 12:22 PM
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Alexis P.)
Thank you Happyme and grimSage for the warm and supportive replies, i appreciated every single word of you. <3
Maybe... if i managed in contacting a mental specialist without my parents knowing it, i guess i can also contact a gender therapist in the future.
Since Happyme first asked what to do with my breasts, i thought everyday about it and what could be the meaning of this whole story. It's complicated, because honestly i have no idea on what i am nor what i want for me, and still struggling with taking choices apart from my family (even with the help of a mental specialist). So yeah, maybe i'm understanding slowly i should talk with a gender therapist, but i guess i still need a little more time to think about me and what to say.
Also, how should i consider the NBE program i'm currently taking?
Again thanks everyone for giving me opinions and food for thought " alt="" title="">